Ma`rifat

God has combined the first period of human development with play. While playing, children can imitate the adults. Playing is one of the ways children learn how to interact. Competitive games in particular are very attractive to children and, if done correctly, can be effective in their physical development and can improve their basic skills and social relationships. However, comparing children's talents with one another may have the opposite result. This article seeks to examine the effect of competition and comparison on children's education and explain its advantages and disadvantages. If done correctly, competition helps children better understand their abilities, and this will certainly come in handy throughout their lives. Children's competition with each other has a profound effect on the development of their personality. However, God has created each human being unique and for a specific purpose. In fact, every human being has his/her own abilities and talents, and comparing people with each other is wrong. Comparing children with one another negatively affects their upbringing. It does not contribute to their growth and development, but rather hinders their self-realization. One of the most common wrong beliefs and behaviors in society is comparing children with one another.